How many of you are having or have had an affair?  Do you know why?  How did it start?  These questions shine a light on the status of your long-term relationship or marriage.  The questions are for you alone, to examine yourself, to understand….

Is it because you were feeling neglected by your partner?  Did you need excitement or passion or romance back in your life?  Or were you still truly in love with the person with whom you were having an affair?  Did you just want an affair or did you want more?